My Expat 4th of July Overseas Observations

America is 244 years old today and was born in violence. A war to win independence from the tyranny of England. We have since become allies. Acceptance and forgiveness have led to mutual respect. However, has this pattern not continued in other places? From the individual struggles within families, to the awakening of cultural changes over time, and the political turmoil of nations and between countries, it’s a part of human nature. Often first comes coexistence, then comparisons, which can lead to resentments, and too often conflicts. Unfortunately, the conflict can evolve into violence rapidly. From the ashes can be born hatred or love. Maybe it is the circle of life for an ideology. Humans have learned to harness the atom for both good and evil. Why not strive to harness our emotions to allow growth and change to occur without violence. This should be the best use of technology now. Communications is the key to cooperation. Compromise is necessary for peace. Acceptance of compromise may be harder that dying in battle.

I am old enough to remember the Nixon Admistration, the protests over the war in Vietnam, and the hippy culture versus the conservative culture, civil rights movement, too. Although the issues and names have changed, the strife and wonder of the outcome for us as a society feels the same to me now in the USA.
However, what feels different is that I now feel somewhat detached from it with much of my life now in Tbilisi, Georgia. My concerns have become broader than the boundaries of one sector of world geography. More concern with the spirit and dignity of humanity than the details of pointing fingers at each other in blame and shame. I have gained a deeper appreciation for other cultures and countries as a result of my becoming an Expat.

Moving borders over conflicts and occupations. Changing governments and attitudes around the world. The internet and jet age have made the world more visible and accessible to most people, if they choose to explore online. Technology has conquered time and space. Like daylight reaching a dark corner, the lost, forgotten, and unknown can be finally uncovered. We have new opportunities to use these advancements for the good of all instead of a power over others through understanding and cooperation. Unfortunately, the advancement and spread of weapons of mass destruction has also brought with it the possibility of assured mutual destruction and we cannot afford this outcome.

Human nature is complicated, a mix of good and evil inherent in each of us. Often a stereotyped version finds its way into each culture. It’s better to always be loving and overlook the cost to us, wondering if giving up what is perceived as taken will ever be compensated by the obligation of love for my neighbor returned one day. My prayers include on balance, tolerance will one day be returned in the form of forgiveness, righteousness and peace on earth.

Happy birthday America, and may you continue to be a beacon of freedom in the world with respect for all.